7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
4. Think
Win-Win Teens
can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of
Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial
situation. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others
instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win.
It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your
doormat either. You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But you
also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well. Win-Win is abundant.
It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around. It’s not a matter
of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for
everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet. Win-win
always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win is
the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether or not you are
thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and
Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feeling. Win-Win
will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you
confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE
THE RIGHT!!!
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